It is so easy to be moved from being satisfied to dissatisfaction when we allow our own or someone else’s expectations run the show.
Not all expectations are bad. I am referring to the expectation that you will be able to pull off the unrealistic perfect family gathering this weekend! We see those photos in ads where there aren’t any dirty dishes or dust bunnies and every outfit blends or coordinates with every outfit in the photo and all of that is accented by the perfect food, makeup, and….well, the list goes on. Media and advertising have painted unrealistic and unattainable “picture perfect” moments for us to try to reproduce in our own homes.
Can you imagine how long it takes to set up those photo shoots?
And when we aren’t able to pull it off we become dissatisfied with what we have.
Don’t do it. Don’t go there.
Folks, it isn’t happening at our house. We won’t be serving perfection but we are serving love, forgiveness, mercy, and grace. We have been busy with life so we might be a wee bit tired and the house isn’t perfectly clean. We didn’t buy new dresses. We probably won’t be color coordinated but we will be enjoying one another’s company. When it is time to share the big meal, my goal is for all the food to be ready at the same time but even that isn’t always easy.
Expectations. Sometimes they kill the joy of the moment!
God sent Jesus in an unexpected way to save ordinary people like you and me. Jesus died an unimaginable death to set things right with God on our behalf. This isn’t the picture perfect situation by the world’s standards but God’s love for us is perfect, so this evidence of God’s love is perfection.
God has given you His all. Ask Him to open your eyes and heart to be satisfied with all He is and all He is doing.
Thank You, Father, for Your perfect love!