Whether or not you recognize or acknowledge the giver of a gift, you have received a gift.
I was chatting with a friend recently who has seen prayer after prayer been answered in her daughter’s life. But her daughter continues to be blind to these answered prayers. I pray one day she recognizes that God has still been lavishly giving to her some beautiful gifts — in answer to her her mother’s prayers —
It seems that many of those who have been raised in a Christian family are actively rejecting the Christian faith. It’s not looking “a little different”, it isn’t about “a different denomination” or a neutral position. It seems to be a complete rejection of God and the Christian faith.
I have listened to a lot of friends who have had similar experiences and it is heartbreaking and so interesting, too.
I grew up in a family with an occasional connection to God. I don’t seem to remember being in one church but a little here and a little there until I ended up at a church where I could have easy, regular access. My brother was the new organist. I was 12. He needed someone to help in the choir and so there I was at church twice a week. Once for choir practice and once for church. And it just went on from there.
My mom had been disillusioned by behavior in the church — quite honestly, I don’t blame her. I have seen some ugly stuff. But, it never caused me to wonder about God’s goodness. And when things did not go “my way” or when I strayed away from the narrower path, I always knew in my soul about God’s grace and God’s gifts. Even if I wasn’t surrounded by it actively His provision was all around me. I longed for that connection — possibly because it wasn’t in my day-to-day experience.
We are encouraged to bring our children up “in the Lord” but maybe all that familiarity squelches any kind of longing for God on their part. God isn’t the forbidden fruit or relegated to an obligatory service two holidays a year in the midst of family life.
Even those who are wrestling with a Biblical understanding of God are still be provided for — in ways they don’t know, see, or acknowledge. I think that is spiritual blindness that prevents them from seeing. And the prayers and petitions are often through a parent, grandparent, sibling, or friend.
Your prayers are a provision. It is a great honor to intercede for those “who know not what they do.” Keep praying!
Blessings on your day!
Liz