For some reason, those two words feel very differently to me. So I checked in with Merriam Webster to see what the distinction might be. I guess the difference is mainly that a response, as an action, is neutral but a reaction can be positive or negative. I don’t know. What do you think?
Definition of reaction
1a: the act or process or an instance of reacting
b: resistance or opposition to a force, influence, or movement especially : tendency toward a former and usually outmoded political or social
order or policy
2: a response to some treatment, situation, or stimulus her stunned reaction to the news also: such a response expressed verbally critical reaction to the play
Definition of response
1: an act of responding
2: something constituting a reply or a reaction: such as
a: a verse, phrase, or word sung or said by the people or choir after
or in reply to the officiant in a liturgical service
b: the activity or inhibition of previous activity of an organism or
any of its parts resulting from stimulation
c: the output of a transducer or detecting device resulting from a
How do you respond to situations? What is your tendency? Do
you rush to judgment? Collect the facts first? Are you willing to hear everyone
out? Are you a “reactor” or a “responder”?
Of course, it all depends on the situation. Some do call for
quick action. But for normal, everyday things that happen, do you have a
tendency to be negative about whatever you are facing?
And are you happy with it?
Training ourselves to respond calmly to situations is important. Paying attention to the words that come out of our mouths is important. Along with that, habits like eye-rolling, heavy sighing, foot stomping, door slamming, needing to have the last word, and low-register grumbling are just as important to gain control of.
Here is a challenge for both you and me:
Let’s spend the next 24 hours without uttering a complaint.
Will life be all rosy and full of tulips and puppy kisses? I doubt it. But we
can still spend 24 hours not verbally complaining. If you really need to
“complain”, write it down in a notebook and in 24 hours decide if you
still need to present the complaint.
14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.”[c] [Philippians 2: 14-15, NIV]
Blessings to you as you consider reactions and responses!