We can be so hard on ourselves…

Have you ever noticed that sometimes you are harder on yourself than you are on others?

Well, maybe you are also hard on others and you maybe should check on that.

Those voices that are in your head? Sometimes they aren’t kind at all. But, first you need to notice that they are there.

And those thoughts that are not loving and kind are not from God.

Does God love every thing we do and say? No, but He does not condemn us. So take note of the tone of voice floating around in your mind. Ok, it might not be audible, but there is such a thing as self-talk.

Negative thoughts make their appearance and take root at a variety of points in our lives. At some point we need to work through them and dismantle them.

But, spending more time in God’s Word and surrounding yourself with Scripture is definitely an important first step. I didn’t come up with this phrase but I think it can be helpful — it is hard to stand on Scripture when you aren’t in it.

You know how satan’s schemes. He distracts us and we even distract ourselves. Will we ever get to the bottom of it all? Maybe. Maybe not. But spending time with God, offering intercessions for others, expressing gratitude, and memorizing encouragement from Scripture is never a waste.

Write out your thoughts and prayers. Offer them up.

And give yourself the grace you are so inclined to give others!

May God grant you His perfect peace!

5 thoughts on “We can be so hard on ourselves…

  1. I’m so incredibly frustrated with how terribly flakey my brain is, moreso since Luke died.

    People say that I must be patient with myself, but that’s not my desired answer!

    1. This is a hard season. If our roles were reversed, I know you would offer the same advice to me. How would you talk to a grieving friend? Talk to yourself similarly. I know you would be filled with compassion and great love and intercession. Accept that from others.

  2. I always tell myself I will reach out and let you know how much your words bless, and sometimes convict me. Unfortunately my follow thru isn’t what I would like it to be 😊 This prayer point was (and is) much needed. Your servant’s heart is beautiful and thank you for sharing your gifts with others.❀️

    Kim

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